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Tuesday, July 12, 2016

What would Jesus think? (If He was on this earth in his senior years)

Jesus only made it to his 32nd year.  Here is a question I have often mused over, what if Jesus made it to his 62, 72 or even 92 year of age.  How would his brain have developed given that increase in time?  He certainly is considered one of the greatest Sages of all time, but how would Jesus think at 92 versus 32 years of age? Not long ago bracelets with WWJD (What would Jesus do?) were popularized. In this article I want to muse about WWJT (What would Jesus think?) Neuroscience has learned a lot about how we think, and how the...

Friday, October 31, 2014

Your Giving Out Advice Nobody Wants to Hear

Negative Advice Givers. You know these people. A lot of their sentences start with the phrase,  “You know… there’s a better way to do that.” They might start with good intentions, but it always comes out like criticism. Many of these negative people actually have good ideas and could be extremely helpful, it’s just that no one wants to listen to them because they’re just… Well they’re just negative. “Here - you’re doing it wrong....

Thursday, April 24, 2014

Renewing Your Mind

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Renewing the Mind PT 1

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Thursday, March 20, 2014

Does Everything Happen for a Reason

They say everything happens for a reason. But what if it doesn’t? We humans are creatures that like to be able to give purpose to every event, but I’m not so sure life works that way. Yes - I think we can learn something from everything we experience good or bad. We grow, become more mature. But did it always happen for a reason? I don’t think so. To say that God willfully controls all these bad things that happen in our lives paints a very different picture of God than I know. We live in a broken world where sin results in broken beings...

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

The Lie of the Guidance Counselor

Life is never as straightforward as we would like it to be. It's funny how the older as person gets, the more we realize that we cannot control our future. There are times that we point ourselves in a certain direction, but the place we end up is somewhere quite different, and you look back and feel "well how the  heck did I end up here?" Remember doing aptitude testing in grade school? You sit down with a counselor and answer 25 questions and BAM - they gave you a list of 10 occupations perfectly suited for you. You could be a pilot, an...

Friday, July 5, 2013

Self Control

I’ve worked with teenagers for more than 10 years and any story you can imagine I’ve heard, witnessed or experienced. They light themselves on fire with hairspray, shoot fireworks at each other in a tag game, surf on the back of moving vehicles, put icy/hot rub in places that should never be “icy-hotted” and and and. Self control is not exactly the cornerstone of life for teenagers.   This past week I read a few articles in SI about what...